1.   Pray.

2.   Study the faith.

3.   Know your options.

4.   Affirm or eliminate options educationally.

5.   What brings me peace?

6.   What are others saying?

7.   Frequently receive the sacraments.

8.   Ask the right questions of the right people.

9.   Listen to your conscience.

10. Be generous.

11. Live healthy relationships.

12. Get off the fence.

13. Leap of faith using the Holy Spirit.

14. Know the holiness of all vocations.