In order for you to focus on an option, you need to know what they are.

As a woman in the Church, you have 3 vocational options:

1. Married life

2. Single life

3. Sisterhood (Nun)

As a man in the Church, you have 5 vocational options:

1. Married life

2. Single life

3. Priesthood

4. Brotherhood (monk)

5. Deacon

It would be foolish to look at only one advertisement in the paper if we were going to pick out a car.   Instead, the smart thing to do would be to look at several ads, to visit and see several of them for yourself, and to then make an educated decision.