Lots of people will give their “two cents” about car buying, but there are only a few people whose opinion has lasting value in my book. Likewise, when it comes to discernment, not everyone should be considered as the same valued resource. Talk to someone who lives as a faithful Catholic. Talk to someone who is married if you are considering marriage. Talk to a priest if you are considering priesthood. Talk to a nun or sister if you are considering that vocation. You see the pros living all around us. Listen and meditate on what is said. Don't be afraid to ask questions, but also try to have thoughts organized beforehand so that the person is not engaging in just idle chatter.